I’m Afraid of How My Partner Will React to My Unplanned Pregnancy

If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy and feeling unsure about how your partner will react, you’re not alone in navigating that uncertainty. Whether you’re in a committed relationship or not, telling someone you’re pregnant can be a big step—especially if you’re not sure what kind of response you’ll receive.

At Mendo Lake Women’s Clinic, we provide no-cost, confidential care to help you understand your pregnancy and feel supported as you make your next decisions—free from pressure or judgment. Contact us to learn how we can help today.

Before You Talk to Him, Know Where You Stand

Before you start the conversation, take some time to consider what you want. Do you want your partner to be involved? How might his opinion influence your decision? Clarifying your priorities can help you feel more confident and less reactive during the conversation.

Accurate information about your pregnancy can also help. We offer free pregnancy testing and limited ultrasounds to confirm whether you’re pregnant, how far along you are, and whether the pregnancy is progressing normally.

Practical Tips for the Conversation

• Choose the right time and place. Find a private setting where you can talk without distractions.
• Be clear and calm. Share the facts, and let your partner know you’re still learning more about your options.
• Allow time for a response. He may be surprised or unsure how to respond initially, and that’s okay.
• Set boundaries if needed. If the conversation becomes uncomfortable or controlling, it’s okay to pause and revisit it later—or not at all.

Remember, you are not required to make a decision based on someone else’s reaction. This is your pregnancy, and you deserve to be treated with respect.

We Can Help

Mendo Lake Women’s Clinic is a professional medical clinic offering services at no cost.

All appointments are confidential, and we do not profit from your decisions. You’ll find a safe place to ask questions, get answers, and take your next step with clarity.

Schedule your free and confidential appointment today.

Mendo Lake Women’s Clinic does not perform or refer for abortions.