My birth control failed: What do I do?

First, take a deep breath and know you have options. Accidental pregnancies account for about 35% of all pregnancies, so while your situation is shocking, you are not alone.

Below you will find information on what to do next and what options are available in your state.

Why You Should Get an Ultrasound

If you’ve had a positive pregnancy test, scheduling an ultrasound should be next on your to-do list. Ultrasounds are important diagnostic tools that physicians use to determine your gestational stage and detect any pregnancy complications.

Gestation refers to how many weeks along your pregnancy is.  Understanding this number will guide decisions about your health and pregnancy.

Ultrasounds are also vital in detecting serious complications. For example, an ectopic pregnancy is a potentially life-threatening condition that must be addressed in the early weeks of pregnancy. With an ectopic pregnancy the fertilized egg implants and begins to grow outside of the womb.

This type of pregnancy is not viable, meaning it cannot grow to term, and can only be diagnosed through an ultrasound. At Mendo Lake Women’s clinic, we can help you get the information and services you need – free of charge. Keep reading to find out more.

Options to Explore

In the state of California, women currently have three options when dealing with an unplanned pregnancy: abortion, adoption, and parenting.

Abortion

While abortion may seem like the most convenient choice, it’s important to learn about the risks involved to be certain you’re making an informed and confident decision.

Risks following an abortion include:

• An incomplete abortion, requiring a surgical procedure
• Heavy and prolonged bleeding
• Sepsis, which can be a life-threatening infection
• Damage or injury to the cervix or uterus, which can cause fertility issues in the future

You can speak with your doctor or a local pregnancy clinic if you have concerns or questions about abortion risks.

Adoption

Choosing adoption allows you to provide a loving future for your pregnancy, giving the gift of life to your baby. In adoption, as the birth mother, you will work with an adoption agency to choose who will raise your child and how involved you wish to be in your child’s life as he/she grows.

Parenting

Parenthood is often described as the most challenging yet most rewarding experience in one’s life. While parenting is not for everyone, fears of not knowing what to do or that you will mess it up are normal.

Most women can parent successfully with the right training and support.

Finding Local Help

Mendo Lake Women’s Clinic is here to take this unplanned journey with you. At our clinic , you can get an ultrasound and other pregnancy-related treatments free of charge.

Mendo Lake is a safe place to ask questions, explore your options, and get the care you deserve. Text our office at 707-272-3051 to schedule a confidential, free appointment today!

We care about you and your unplanned pregnancy, and you’re never alone.